Hello reader and welcome to the blog. By now you have understood that the talk for today is ‘pain’.
Let’s start by knowing legit definition of pain. “Pain is a physical
or mental sensation which is triggered when their are either
mishappenings or any kind of unpleasantries in the moments of life.”
Source- Google.com
Have you ever exercised so vigorously that some parts of your body
start aching or may be whole body is in pain, but when you do it
regularly, there are two things that happen, the pain is now gone and
second is, it builds your body better.
These two things happen with every pain whether mental or physical.
Source- Google.com
Here is another example of pain, have you ever felt sometimes that
your partner is super annoying and keeping quite about their shit is
‘painful’, but you keep your ego aside and just go with the flow, and
later you realised that they are right in their opinion, here too the
pain is healed and it has changed you for the better.
Now, the above two examples prove that pain is really temporary. Also they prove that without pain, there is
no gain. So here comes my next point, no matter how hard people try, no
one can escape from the pain in their lives, not you, not me, not
anyone. It will find you in one or the other way, we can do nothing
about it. Which brings me to my next point.
Source- Google.com
To all the people who are going through some really painful phase of
life. Life has punched you hard, has kicked your butts. But you don’t have to sit and cry for that
no, you have to believe that you are going to win at life. You are not
going to let life walk over you. You are going to get up, hold your head
high and then you are going to move forward with your dreams and goals
and ambitions in your eyes. Life can put anyone down in just a few
moments and yes, this is a test from life. Seek out what this phase is
teaching you, you have to improve yourself and try not to repeat the
same mistake again. If you are feeling like ‘this is the end of the
world’, remember, that failing in life is always an option. Failing
doesn’t means that you are a failure, it means that you are bold enough
to try new things and fail at them. We can overcome the pain, maybe in a
month, a year, 5 years, the pain of failing will faid away, but the regret of not trying will eat you for the rest of your life.
How much a current situation is affecting us is in our hands. How we
perceive the pain is all that matters. You have to accept it and move
forward in your life. What most people do is they go to the extremes.
They either just ignore the pain and it keeps on paining again and again
for every once in a while or they just fully accept it, even more then
it is needed and think that this is the end of life, their is nothing
more left to it. You have to be measurable between the two, once you
suffer from pain, just accept it, but not to the point that it breaks
you down, just think that it will make you a better person, a wiser
person and move on, go on, life has many options for you. This is what I
was trying to say, not completely refusing and not completely accepting
it. You will be happy once you know that good experiences are the
result of many bad experiences.
Source- Google.com
Just remember the phrase above “everything will be good in the end, if it isn’t good, it’s not the end.” This is just so good thought that I couldn’t resist it writing.
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